Devotion: The Sacred Search

Devotional Notes:

Scriptural Mandates:
  • Is the person a believer who fears God (Prov. 31:30) and who is biblically eligible for marriage (Mark 10:11-12)?
Wisdom:
  • How do they handle their money (Prov. 31:16, 18)?
  • Is this person a hard worker (Prov. 13:4; 26:13-15)?
  • Do they live an upright life (Prov. 13:6, 20; 25:28)?
  • Does this person wound people with their words, or are they an encourager (Prov. 12:18; 18:21)?
  • Are they peaceful, or are they quarrelsome (Prov. 17:19; 29:8)?

Prayer:
  • Rejecting the notion that God creates one person just for us doesn’t discount the reality that God can lead us toward someone and help us make a wise choice when we seek Him in prayer. We want to surrender to God’s providence by seeking and using the gift of wisdom, applied learning, and rational understanding.

Devotion: The Scared Search


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Devotional Notes: Day 2

Find a man with solid character who is growing in the Lord and pursuing godliness.

Women, are you foregoing character and godliness in order to pursue feelings? How long do you think these feelings will last into the marriage?

Acts 6:3
“Therefore, brothers, pick out from among you seven men of good repute, full of the Spirit and of wisdom, whom we will appoint to this duty.”

Questions to ask myself:

Am I looking for a man with solid character and character that reflects God and the Spirit within him?

What are truly my top focuses when meeting a guy and what do I lead with into love?

What am I most afraid of when it comes to dating and guys? Why?

What do solid characteristics look like?

How can i have discernment to know his heart?

S.O.A.P:

Scripture:
Acts 6:3
“Therefore, brothers, pick out from among you seven men of good repute, full of the Spirit and of wisdom, whom we will appoint to this duty.”

Observation:
       As I read this passage it makes me think more about what a man of good repute looks like. What a man full of the spirit and of wisdom looks like. While I have seen this from the guys at church, it can be hard to see this outside of church. How can one see this way of life outside of the traditional setting and know he is good? Is it in his tongue, actions, matter of attitude?

Application:
       This is a hard one I can see to apply in my life because I haven’t always been the best judge in character. In that I mean I judge, but maybe I have judged men to hard and the good ones have slipped through. I need to focus on surrounding myself with devoted, kind Christian men and in order to do that I need to speak more about God and carry myself with kindness and friendliness that will show I am filled with the spirit, so other with the Spirit will want to talk to me. 

Prayer:
Dear God,
      I pray that you give me the wisdom, kindness, and understanding I need to know when a man is of good repute and full of the Spirit. Help me to not be quick to judge people, and have discernment with character. To not be negative or quick with my tongue, but have a tongue that is attractive to others in a way of the Spirit working in me. Help me to surround myself with those who place you in their center focus and have meaningful talks about you. Help me to strengthen the relationships I have that are Christ centered. Help me find a Christian man who can be a spiritual leader in marriage one day to me.

Amen

Devotion: The Sacred Search




Devotional Notes: Day 1

Matthew 6:33
“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”

What is the difference between a Matthew 6:33 marriage and a marriage which stems only from initial physical/sexual attraction?
 If you are married or simply dating, are you a couple with a purpose, on mission for God?

Questions to ask myself:

What am I seeking and why?

What is the true purpose behind my actions? Is it to please God and live for Him, or is it for man and to please/impress them.

How excited am I to live for God and do His works?

Am I doing all I can for Him, or am I focusing to much on worldly things?

How can I direct my wants and needs back to where they are for the glory of God?

Am I showing others how God is working in me or do I carry my everyday self like I am not?

Am I placing other things in my life before God and prioritizing them first when I shouldn’t?

Am I giving God my focus daily, reading and observing His word, and building a relationship with Him first, so I can have great friendships and relationships guided by God?

What convictions may I be feeling?

What are my true concerns or fears and how can I pray to God about them in long vocal prays?

S.O.A.P:

Scripture: Matthew 6:33
“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”

Observation:
As I read this passage I am deeply moved and filled with deep thought about my life and what I am putting focus on. I ask myself am I truly putting God first and living for him through actions and attitude, and I can say I have not been. While yes I serve every week at church, am I mentally present and truly taking action with the result of growth and understanding. In the beginning I was, but as life adds stress and more and more things on my mind I find myself distracted and with great concern filling my head and heart. This concern is about the future and what it holds along with are my current relationships truly flourishing. 

Application:
In order to seek first the kingdom of God I need to place Him as first priority in my life. Reading God’s word daily and truly observing how God is speaking to me in that moment. Not what my human self believes, but what my spiritual self knows to be truth from Him. I have been placing a lot of thought on dating, friendships, family, school, and work. With dating comes the fear it will never happen for me, but I have to place my trust in God that it will happen one day and in His timing. Timing that is for my good and to help me, not harm me. In friendships am I trying my hardest to actually grow the ones I have, and in what way do I feel they are not succeeding. With family am I speaking with them as much as I should be to show my appreciation for them and that they have given me so much in life to be thankful for even with the hard relationship moments. With school, yes, I am doing great, but am I growing truly with those around me or continuing to place judgment on the unknown around me. With work am I working my hardest with a smile on my face everyday, just being thankful for the opportunity I have been given and remaining a balanced life.

Prayer:

Dear God,
Coming to you with a lot on my heart and mind, confusion and uncertainty of the future, I ask for guidance and peace in this season of life. Direction and clarity on what I need to do and where to go. I pray that you give me the help and motivation daily to wake up with my focus on you. Reading your word daily and living with actions that express them. I pray God that you help me in my dating or courtship life and help guide me to a spiritual husband one day. Giving me peace in the season and discernment to know who he is. I pray that you help me with the friendships I have, growing them and helping me navigate the new ones I will have in the future that place you in center focus. I pray for a renewal in my family spiritually, mentally, and in health. I pray to do well in school, but not have it consume my life and create a negative person in me. I pray that I do well in my job, but always remember to place you first in my thoughts and actions. To live for you truly and through and through!!

AMEN
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